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My New Private Art Gallery (In My Home!)

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Passion will create confusion if you don’t give it guidelines.

And it can also be crushed under the weight of expectations that aren’t your own.

Take my new house, for example.

There’s a pretty large bonus room, and at first, I had no idea what to do with it.

That’s when the voice started whispering, “Be practical. Make it useful. Maximize the space.” 

It’s the same voice that runs rampant in traditional business and marketing, always insisting that more is better.

But here’s the thing, I didn’t want a “useful” room.

I wanted something that felt indulgent, personal, and meaningful.

So I shut that voice down and gave myself permission to create an art gallery.

Not just any art gallery.

A minimalist art gallery.

Three pieces, no more.

Why only three?

Because I refuse to treat this space like a box to fill.

Plus, buying art takes me forever.

I have to be absolutely smitten with a piece before I commit. 

If I’m going to look at it every day for decades, it has to be something I adore.

Hanging art just to fill space?

That’s exactly what the voice would want me to do.

And so far?

With just three pieces and all that white space, the room feels calm and intentional.

It’s a quiet rebellion against the idea that more is always better.

This gallery reminds me that passion works best when it’s focused, not frantic.

My next piece?

It’ll come when it’s the right one.

Not because I’m rushing to fill the space, but because it belongs there.

And here’s the best part: this approach doesn’t just apply to art.

It’s a way of resisting the endless demand to produce and perform, whether it’s in business, marketing, or life.

Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is choose less.

And make it mean so much more.

XXXO

Sally’s Debut, Martha’s Influence, Pharrell’s Vision & Paris’ Unapologetic Style

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Hey, I want you to see this….

It’s my client Sally’s first YouTube video (it’s so good it looks like it’s her 100th!) and I couldn’t be more proud of her.

I love it so much. It’s packed with insightful viewpoints about early childhood education. And how Martha Stewart’s approach has influenced Sally’s own ‘Wunderled’ approach.

When you watch it, you’ll quickly see it matches Sally’s brand—warm and cozy with lots of mama bear energy.

(I never force my personal style on my clients. Instead, I help them bring out more of what they already love and align with.)

And Sally’s a bit camera shy.

So we found a way for her to have a YouTube channel—without having to speak on camera.

This kind of creative magic is what happens when you join me in B.E.D.!

It’s where I work with clients one-to-one to help them bring their creative visions to life.

I get so inspired when my coaching helps entrepreneurs make money from their viewpoints and ideas.

It’s truly the only way to separate yourself from everyone else in your industry.

And uncovering and developing your viewpoints connects you to your purpose(s)—and gives your confidence a HUGE boost.

Someone else that’s inspired my pants off this week is Paris Hilton.

I binged her show Paris In Love Season 2 in two days.

I’m so in awe of how unapologetically-herself she is.

My favorite?

Her huge collection of stuffed animals proudly displayed in the living room of her $160,000 a month Beverly Park mansion. 

You should’ve seen the surprised look on her mom, Kathy Hilton’s face when she came over the first time.

(It reminded me of the looks my mom used to give me when she would see the outfits I wore to high-school. Especially when I wore a silver leather mini-skirt & stilettos to algebra.

Speaking of fashion…

Have you seen Vogue’s interview where Pharrell Williams talks about his new Louis Vuitton mens’ collection. 

He actually doesn’t consider himself a fashion designer—but a creative director.

I thought the distinction was genius!

And it got my imagination twirling… could I give creative direction to LV?

I’d love to have a sit-down interview with Vogue. Even though, like Sally, I’m a bit camera shy!

It’s taken everything I’ve got to become comfortable making TikToks. But it’s definitely worth getting out of my comfort zone.

The video I made about ‘Over-Delivering & Under-Earning Ursula’ has 212,000 views!

XXXO

Comment ‘Pizza’ (Fun Marketing Idea!)

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I’ve got a fun marketing idea for you today.

This week, I received a pitch email from a company that helps you grow on Instagram through back end shout-outs. Do you know what those are?

Anyway, I’m not interested in doing that because even though you can get a lot of new followers, it’s not the kind of followers who are truly interested in your content.

I’d rather spend my marketing budget on paid ads.

BUT when I was reading her email, she said something so adorable that almost changed my mind.

It was this—–>>>>

Reply to me with “pizza” if you’d like me to stop following up :)

How cute is that? Especially since I love pizza!

Getting playful in her pitch––let my guard down. And made me want to know more!

This is such a smart idea that I think you should borrow it the next time you send a pitch email, or a follow-up email.

Of course, just customize it to something that you love.

For me, I’ll probably use Gucci or Prada or matcha!

XXXO